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Becoming and Surviving as a Socialite
Stepping Up as a Career Socialite
How to Break Into as a Socialite
How to Become a Philanthropist
Becoming a "Divo" or "Dandy"

There are many misconceptions on what a "socialite" is and how they behave.

Some of them have the reputation of being "snobbish" and "notorious." Others may be looked upon with a frown.
There is also a notion that a "socialite" is a status that one is born with, not earned.
A socialite is a party creature, they don't care about the world.

Are these misconceptions true? Or, are these not more than generalizations?

Sure a socialite can party a lot if that is what they want to do, but this is in no way the proper definition for one. A socialite uses such functions as parties as a means to see and be seen among the upper crust of society. These functions are not always parties and fund raisers. Political functions and store and film openings are often part of the popular repertoire.

While being rich and famous is almost a guaranteed VIP entrance into the world of socialites, many choose not to be a part of the hype.

There are actually quite a number of socialites who support worthy causes. Look at Madonna, Leonardo DiCaprio, Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt. These celebrities could be considered “caring socialites” or “social socialites;” a term coined by StyleCareer.com editor-in-chief Jennie S. Bev. A “caring socialite” or “social socialite” uses their fame, fortune and status to spread messages through the population to help others in need.

This message is sometimes viewed as good and sometimes bad. Their viewpoints can cause a lot of disturbance to society because they have influence over the public.

Causes such as pollution, AIDS and political elections rely on socialites for fundraising and support. They use the powerful influence of the socialite to gain easy access to the press, spread information and gain public approval. Of course such publicity can easily be just as hurtful as it is helpful.

Paris Hilton is one particular socialite who has left so much negative “imagery” behind that her name on a product or cause might actually dissuade people from believing in it. It is true that being a socialite can have both positive and negative effects to the world. But you can choose which side of the fence you want to be. The world is actually big enough for both types!

Most likely socialites in general know many people of similar standings in the society, but just like in any other groups, you need to be introduced first. You need to have similar interests to really know each other and with today’s popularity of career status socialites, the rules of needing to be among a certain family status are being broke. Many new socialites come from humble background, such as Mary J. Blige and other rap moguls. They are accepted for being their unique selves, which add more fun and diversity to the world of socialites.

It is true that there are usually two separate groups of socialites. Those who are considered to be “born in” socialites (a.k.a. “old rich and famous”) and those who are self-made (a.k.a. “new rich and famous”). They need each other, however, and can be seen at many of the same functions. In general, it will be easier for a career socialite to gain access to other self-made socialites who probably have the most in common with their situation. This does not mean that a born socialite will not find a rising career socialite fascinating and choose to befriend them. The point here is that while this is a closely knitted group, it will not necessarily segregate against those who are not yet a part of it.

So far we have covered that you do not need to be born as a socialite to fit in these days. You have opportunities to be accepted for your individual talents and background, regardless of your upbringing. You do not need to be a celebrity, party creature or groupie to gain access to these parties and functions. We have explained the difference between negative and positive socialite attention and offered a few scenarios where positive attention can be used to aid people and causes that the socialite feels are important.

Socialites are people with hopes, dreams, successes and failures. Being a socialite can have a lot of perquisites, such as attending the best parties and speaking with the current stars in the society, including great leaders, movers and shakers, and celebrities.

With these perks also comes the unsaid recommendation to use your new position and influence responsibly. Being a socialite is a full-time job. You must remain in the eye of the public and keep up on old and new contacts.

A socialite’s rank is ever changing and its members rise and fall on an ever fluctuating basis of popularity. It is part of the cycle to be popular and then less sought after, so a seasoned socialite must be able to take the highs with the lows. Being a top ranked socialite is not as much a gift as it is a privilege. Treat it as such and you should be around long enough to enjoy the fruits of your labor for years to come.

The Beginning of Modern Day Socialites

Some people credit the Rockefeller family with the first introduction of modern socialite techniques. First founded by John Davis Rockefeller and his brother William, the Rockefellers made their fortune in the oil industry. Through their fortune, this in turn led to their well known involvement in banking and various philanthropic investments. But has anyone ever wondered how we know so much about the Rockefellers; especially during a time where history and its leaders were not tracked as in detail as they are today.

The Rockefellers are most likely why we know so much. Having learned the advantage of being well known in the world; the Rockefellers have been said to have actually hired journalists to keep track of their involvements and report them nationwide. They themselves probably had a big hand in the making of their legend and fame.

This is the same technique that we will be discussing throughout this book. Sometimes when nobody else is around to toot your horn, you have to toot your own for awhile until somebody joins in. Part of being a career socialite is creating an image and making it a memorable one. It is entirely possible to create your own status if you use the simple techniques that are explained throughout this book.

About the Authors

Jennie S. Bev is THE fashion, image and fun careers expert, whose reputation has been acknowledged by prestigious media internationally. She has been profiled and mentioned in Entrepreneur, Teen People, Canadian Business, Home Business, Dong (France), San Francisco Chronicle, The Independent, Daily Southtown, The Arizona Republic, Chic (UK/Asia), Fit (Asia), Femina (Asia) and Dewi (Asia).

Editor-in-Chief Jennie S. Bev was named 2003 EPPIE Award finalist in Non-Fiction How To category for excellence in electronic publishing. She has published over 60 books and 900 articles in the United States, United Kingdom, Canada, France, Germany and Southeast Asia. She is also a college professor based in San Francisco Bay Area.

Co-author Eric J. Leech was born into this world without a GI Joe (with a Kung Fu grip) or silver spoon, Eric J. Leech grew up on the streets of the small town of Grand Junction, Colorado. After high school, Eric found his way to Colorado State University where he attained four degrees in Psychology, Social Sciences, English and Theater Arts.

Eric has since put every degree to good use with a variety of career accomplishments. These accomplishments include seven years as an actor/model and Production Assistant for various television and film projects. He also maintained a successful business as the co-owner of an outdoor living structure design company for several years before pursuing his full-time career as a freelance columnist/writer.

Since that decision Eric has been featured on such international magazines as the Circle (India), Urban Male Magazine (Canada), UNO (Philippines) and Coffee House Digest (International).

This 66-page instantly downloadable StyleCareer.com eGuide Breaking Into and Surviving as a Socialite is carefully written with advices and tips from top socialites who have years of experiences in what they do best: being socialites.

TABLE OF CONTENTS

The Myths, the Realities, and the Basics
I’m not rich or famous, nor are my parents.
Do I need to be born to a rich and famous family to become a socialite?
What is a socialite anyway? A party creature? Are all rich and famous people called “socialites”?
Does a socialite care about the world? I’m a caring person, but I want to be a socialite. Can I fit in?
For people like me who are not rich and famous, aren’t we just members of “groupie”? Can we be the actual socialites?
Is it true that all socialites know every other socialite in the world? Isn’t it a closely-knitted group that doesn’t allow outsiders like me?
What are the “myths” about being a socialite?

The Socialite World in a Nutshell
Meaning of the Word
The First Socialites in the World
Debutante Traditions across the Globe
Australia
Ireland
The United States
The Philippines
The Beginning of the Modern Day Socialite
Why being A Socialite is Important for the Public
The Benefits of being a Socialite for Yourself and People Close to You
Today’s Top Socialites
Celebrity Socialite “Rank”
New York Socialite Rankings and Profiles
U.S. National Socialite Ranking and Profiles
A Socialite by Any Other Name
The “Divo” and/or “Dandy”
Philanthropists

Getting Your Feet Wet: A Socialite in the Making
Adopt A Socialite’s Attitude
Networking and Social Skills
How to Get Invited to the Places Where Socialites Mingle
Getting Attention
Publications
Photographers
Designers
Starting Conversations with Seasoned Socialites
How to Keep in Touch with Seasoned Socialites and be An Equal Conversation Partner

Online Socialite Networking: A Starting Point
Get Invited to Online Socialite Networking Sites
How to Build Virtual Friendship with Socialites

How to Maintain Your Socialite Status
Rules in Maintaining Socialite Status
Dos and Don’ts Recommendations
Paparazzi and Other Occupational Hazards: Being Graceful under Any Circumstances?

Socialite Profiles

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